Some of the events of the past week have reminded us once again of the
trials and troubles that can challenge our lives. The collapse of the 35W
bridge in Minneapolis, the explosion in Sioux Center and subsequent death of
a father, husband, brother, and the coal miners trapped in Utah. Life is
extremely fragile, unpredictable, and yes, at times very, very painful. How
are we as Christian people to make sense out of such tragedy and adversity?
What are the lessons we need to learn when the world breaks our hearts?
I am reminded of an African proverb which says: "Smooth seas do not make
skillful sailors." I appreciate the wisdom of William Secker who said:
"Times of trouble have often been times of triumph to a believer. Suffering
seasons have generally been sifting seasons in which the Christian has lost
his chaff and the hypocrite his courage."
The apostle Paul was between "a rock and a hard place" while in prison
and yet he wrote in Philippians 1:12: "And I want you to know, dear brothers
and sisters, everything that has happened to me here has helped to spread
the Good News." Because of Paul's adversity through imprisonment his captors
were brought to Christ, his colleagues were emboldened, his critics were
exposed, and his Christ was exalted.
The message is that good things are revealed in the midst of tragedy and
trial. In fact, at times it takes tragedy and trial to help us see what it
is that God is revealing to us. In his book "Knowing God," J.I.
Parker writes: We should not, therefore, be too taken back when unexpected
and upsetting and discouraging things happen to us now. What do they mean?
Why, simply that God in his wisdom means to make something of us which we
have not attained yet, and is dealing with us accordingly. "It is often the
case, as all the saints know, that fellowship with the Father and the Son is
most vivid and sweet, and Christian joy the greatest, when the cross is
heaviest."
Packer then suggests two ways of handling the trials of life when we
cannot, for the moment, see God's purpose in them. "First, by taking them as
from God, and asking ourselves what reactions to them, and in them, the
gospel of God requires of us; second, by seeking God's face specifically
about them. If we do these two things, we shall never find ourselves wholly
in the dark as to God's purpose in troubles."
Allan Emery has written a book entitled, "A Turtle on a Fencepost."
In the book he tells of accompanying businessmen Ken Hansen to visit a
hospitalized employee. The patient lay very still, his eyes conveying
anguish. His surgery had taken eight hours, and recovery was long and
uncertain.
"Alex," said Ken quietly, "you know I have had a number of serious
surgeries. I know the pain of trying to talk. I think I know what questions
you are asking. There are two verses I want to give you - Genesis 42:36 and
Romans 8:28. We have the option of these two attitudes. We need the
perspective of the latter."
Hansen turned to the passages, read them, then prayed and left. The young
man, Alex Balc, took the message to heart. He later enjoyed full recovery.
Everyday we choose one of these attitudes amid life's difficulties- to be
beat-up, of to be up-beat. To say with Jacob in Genesis 42:36; "All these
things are against me." Or to say with Paul in Romans 8:28: "All these
things are working together for the good to those who love the Lord."
What will be your attitude when faced with times of trouble, adversity,
and even tragedy? Hear God say to you as recorded in Jeremiah 29:11: "For I
know the plans I have for you. They are plans for good and not for disaster,
to give you a future and a hope." Never forget, God has plans for your life.
Take heart and hold on to hope!!
Striving to be Up-beat on the Journey,
Rev. Ron Johnson
(This article is dedicated to my sister Barb in the midst of her trials
and adversity.)
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Understanding the World
When I was a little boy, my mother used to embroider a great deal. I
would sit at her knee and look up from the floor and ask what she was doing.
She informed me that she was embroidering. I told her that it looked like a
mess from where I was . As from the underside I watched her work within the
boundaries of the little round hoop that she held in her hand, I complained
to her that it sure looked messy from where I sat. She would smile at
me, look down, and gently say, " My son, you go about your playing for
awhile, and when I am finished with my embroidering, I will put you on my
knee and let you see it from my side."
I would wonder why she was using dark threads along with bright ones and
why they seemed so jumbled from my view. A few minutes would pass and then I
would hear my Mother's voice say, "Son, come sit on my knee." This I did
only to be surprised and thrilled to see a beautiful flower or a sunset. I
could not believe it, because from underneath it looked so messy.
Then Mother would say to me, "My son, from underneath it did look messy
and jumbled, but you did not realize that there was a pre-drawn plan on the
top. It was a design. I was only following it. Now look at it from my side
and you will see what I was doing."
Many times through the years I have looked up to God in heaven and said,
"What is going on here? What are you doing?" He has answered, "I am
embroidering your life." I responded, "But it looks like a mess down here.
It seems so jumbled. The threads seem so dark. Why can't they all be
bright?"
"My child," a powerful voice from above said. "You go about your business
of doing My business, and one day I will bring you to Heaven and put you on
my knee and you will see the plan from My side."
This is a reminder that all we know is that we don't know. But we do know
in the end, everything is for good. It is just our lack of understanding
that makes us perceive it otherwise. So when something something challenging
happens, look at it from this perspective--that it is part of your growth,
part of your healing, part of your reason for being here and part of the
divine plan. Then smile to yourself.